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Hi everyone! 

My name is Yana, i am 27 years old.  And I’m from Ukraine.

I am not so good in English, but I’ll try to do my best to explain you my situation.

I will be happy even if you just read about me and my life problems 🙏

I was living my best life till my 15th. I met a guy, who destroyed my mental health. We were together 1,5 year. All that time he didn’t allow me to meet my friends, go out or do anything without him. I can tell more, if you want to.

After that I was trying to have some therapy, but it didn’t help.

When I was 17 I started to study in another country and my mom told me she is sick (breast cancer). She wanted better life for me, she paid a lot of money for my studies in Poland, so she didn’t allow me to come back to Ukraine and leave studies.

My dad was alcoholic, so he became homeless when my mum divorced him. (I was near 12).

When i was 20 – my mum died (2th of January 2018). I found my dad, was trying to help him, was looking for a job for him, asked to live with me, but he didn’t want to. And after 2 weeks i got to know that my dad also died (heart problems).

That time i had a boyfriend, who cheated on me in the flat where my mom died. I was very “lucky”, and still i am.

I got to know that my mom had a lot of bank issues (with the flat, near 43000 $). I was living in that flat, trying to finish studies. I spent everything i was earning that time (salary like 370$).

In 2021 i met a guy, he helped me with my issues, we got married, but in 2022 the war has started. And our marriage spoiled.

My godmother helped me to sell that flat, she did her best and i even got some money (near 3000$). I was really happy. But my husband took some money for his needs. Told me that he will give it me back. And in 2023 he decided to divorce.

I moved to another city. And again my bank issues started.

Obviously ex husband didn’t give me back my money. But i believe in karma)

So now I have 3 cats (photos added), living alone, trying yo manage my life, but the salary now is not enough to pay all my bills and banks.

I will not tell you about my health problems, mental and all that, cause i don’t think you want to. But if you ask – I’ll try to.

Now i need to pay different banks, friends, for my flat and other things like 2500$. For me it’s freaking big amount…

I hope you read all this, if you have any questions about my stupid decision in life – please ask 🙃

I am happy to share my story with you.

Have a nice day!

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